I Am Just A Man

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Yes.

The Unexplainable Connection (A rant with a happy ending)

Basically, I think there’s a certain je ne sais quoi that binds people together. 

It’s like there’s no name for it but it exists in friendships and in relationships. 

Hmmm.

Have you ever met someone and you just naturally click and it’s like you’ve known them for ages even though you’ve only just started talking? It’s weird but it’s almost like a bond exists there. I wonder what forms this bond sometimes. What is it that can make me talk to 2 people who are almost identical in every way but I’m only drawn to one and not even interested in the other. 

Once the unexplainable connection is gone, there’s no getting it back. 

Have you ever looked back on an ex and wondered what you saw in them that made you like them so much and want to spend your future with them but in the end the only answer you had was “I don’t even know, I just liked them”. It’s funny because when you were with them you had so many nice things to say.

This is why I think if you get chucked in the “friendzone” there should be no hard feelings really. Sometimes the connection just isn’t there and you just don’t click like you should. 

It can’t be forced nor can it be explained, or maybe it can be explained and I just don’t know how to explain it. 

I genuinely believe this unexplainable connection is one of the most important things when building a relationship or a friendship. Just clicking from day 1. 

A girl can be the hottest, smartest, funniest, most ambitious woman in the world but if that connection isn’t there, I can’t actually see anything happen and I’m sure it’s the same for girls.

With all that being said, I don’t think you can make yourself right for someone. If it happens it happens, if it doesn’t, it doesn’t.

Que, sera, sera.

LOL, why's my uncle so fresh?

• *plays Rick Ross - Mafia Music*
• *Uncle walks in*
• Uncle: Is that 2Pac?
• Me: No, it's Rick Ross
• Uncle: Ray what?
• Me: Rick Ross
• Uncle: I don't understand

Types.

Do I have a type?

I think I do.

Have I ever been involved with someone who’s my type?

I don’t think I have.

I don’t know whether “types” even exist anymore or whether they existed in the first place.

I used to assume my “type” was a girl who was just like me in every way. That was a fail. The reason why that was a fail is because whenever I met a girl just like me, she shared the same flaws as me too. It gets annoying when the things that you don’t like about yourself are presented in front of you in the form of the opposite sex.

I then assumed that opposites attract and maybe that’s what I need, my opposite. Because I was always doing dumb shit like joking too much and not taking things seriously I thought it made sense to get involved with a girl who was my opposite. That didn’t work because she was so serious that my banter annoyed her.

Fail.

I think I need to stop looking for girls that tick all my boxes because that’s just a myth. One of the reasons that’s a myth is because I always add new boxes everyday. I’ll say one day I need a girl who’s one thing and then the next day I’d add something new to my criteria. 

I think I should take every girl that comes individually and just see what I like about her. It seems like the wisest thing to do. At the same time I need to maintain my standards. 

The funny thing is I’m young. How do I even know what I want? If I don’t experience different kinds of people I can’t draw up an image of the kinda wife I want.

Anyway guys, I’m taking life and love day by day and hopefully I’ll meet my queen someday.

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LOL Black Girls Are Great

• Black Girl: Daniel, I've got this guy moving to me and he said the sweetest thing the other day!
• Me: What did he say?
• Black Girl: He said he really wants to get to know me!
• Me: Do you want to become a slut? Because you will be if you fall for basic game like that!
• Black Girl: Nah, it's different this time!
• Me: How?!
• Black Girl: HE'S WHITE SO HE MUST BE TELLING THE TRUTH
• Me: *Giggles*, sigh

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YOLO? (The Conversation I Had With This Girl I Met Today)

• Me: You're not a virgin are you?
• Her: Well yeah, kinda
• Me: How are you kinda a virgin?
• Her: Well it's 2012 so it's kinda reset right?
• *sigh*, Kingston girls are the best

“I’m Not Quite Ready To Be Happy Yet”

I’ve actually heard that so man times and never really understood what it meant until now. 

I’m the type of guy that’ll see someone depressed and offer to make them feel better. I don’t know why but it makes me feel better knowing that I’ve made someone else better.

I never used to understand that sometimes you actually need to spend time depressed before you get better. Like, you can’t get hurt and then wake up the next day feeling fine. 

I used to meet girls that just broke up with their boyfriends and when they told me they weren’t ready to get back on the market because they’re still dealing with that. I’d just look at them like, just man up and move on. No point in dwelling in the past.

Now that I’m the hurt one, I kinda understand what they meant.

It’s like I’m on an assault course called life. Now that I’ve tripped over one of the many obstacles I need to spend a few seconds on the ground just to get myself back together and calculate in my mind how I’m going to get on with this assault course.

I guess I’m still on the ground getting myself back together… Sadly, I’m not quiet ready to be happy yet.

i think that first kiss can be more sensual than the first time you have sex with someone

chanceofreign:

Im not talking first kiss or first time ever, im talking about the first time you kiss your significant other. think about this, the first kiss with someone is that first really intimate moment with someone, that first “nothing else matters” moment. The location, the timing, just has to be perfect. 

there is so much in a kiss, I think people just tend to push it off as “just a kiss”

(via soliloquiesofchaos)

Why do girls love to act?

• *phone rings*
• Girl: Hi, what time's Match Of The Day today?
• Me: Don't act like you like football just to impress me!
• Girl: I'm not, I really like football
• Me: Oh, what team do you support?
• Girl: Arsenal
• Me: Who's the right back for Arsenal?
• Girl: Oi, I don't know that much, calm down...
• Lol, girls....